What If A Girl THREE-Timed You?

[lizard44]

A bit sad today - cos of a friend.

It's like this:

This friend ( lets call him Joe ) had been seeing a girl (lets call her Rachel) for one and a half years. The thing is Rachel already has a boyfriend.

But Joe didn't know that at the beginning. In fact, Rachel told him that she was single. And so Joe thought nothing of it and was in fact very happy that she is single - as she claimed.

Later on - about a month later - she admitted that she indeed is NOT single but have a boyfriend (Chan) of 2 years.

Joe was devastated but Rachel and him (Joe) were already very much in love at that time and had been intimate many times. Joe asked her to give him a chance. In fact, Rachel told him that she will leave Chan - just a matter of time. She assured him of that throughout the one and a half years that Joe was with her.

Now, Joe has found out that Rachel is 'seeing' someone else (William). And have come across knowledge of how intimate they were although they have not yet had ###### - cos he's away at the moment. Their intimacy consisted of phonecalls (overseas) and emails where she told him she can't wait to be with him and be intimate with him. In fact, in one of her mails, she even invited him to share her bed when he comes home from overseas.

Now Joe is devastated. Rachel had been telling him that she's been so tied up in work - her regular excuse.

Joe is really beside himself now and really messed up. Rachel doesn't know that Joe knows about William yet.

Joe is wondering what to do.

Anyone out there with some sensible advice?

[alien07]

Eh. u know the real name of (rachel)? Suddenly its my GF!!!

[cyclop]

She's not worth his LOVE!!!! DUMP her now before she does so sooner or later.!!!!!!!! To feel being DUMPED is not good for his ego.

[AlfaRomeo]

Joe should pack up his bag and leave. She is the kind of gal who will constantly shift her attention to various guys and have no qualms about having multiple partners. Does joe really want to risk having such a wife?

[Jaslyn]

I m sure Joe knows what he should do.A woman like Rachel is not worth of anything he is doing for her,to even feel miserable that she is like this.Joe might just need the support of a true friend to give him a push to confirm his stand.

To Rachel,Joe is probably one of her many pieces of re- useable tissue paper.He should just pack up and go before she finally decided to recycle that piece of paper.

[lizard44]

thanks guys and gals ... suddenly i felt so LOVED by you lovely people ... at least in this world there is still true friendship and LOVE ...

oops ... sorry forgot ... was it from my friend, joe ... sigh,

signing off sadly

lizard

[wolfie]

imho...

if joe's lookin' for a prospective wife, he shld move on.

if joe's simply out to have some fun, then carry on wif rachel and meanwhile, secretly contact william (w/o rachel's knowledge) and tell william abt rachel. and then plan a "one time jia lat jia lat" for her.

[minsmarine]

When u r in love ( true love or not I don't know )

u always find the reason to believe. that he/she is still your.

So I bet, Joe heartbroken and should try to win her back, since he knows what she like

[hammy]

imho...

if joe's lookin' for a prospective wife, he shld move on.

if joe's simply out to have some fun, then carry on wif rachel and meanwhile, secretly contact william (w/o rachel's knowledge) and tell william abt rachel. and then plan a "one time jia lat jia lat" for her.

somewhat agree with wolfie.

there are different criteria when i am looking for a galfriend or wife.

no point holding on to something she dun cherish

a life partner is someone who will take care of u for the rest of ur life and would joe go through such a great risk?

IMO. should move on , and look for someone who will cherish each other and dun waste time on rach.

just my thoughts to share

[minsmarine]

Life is always with full of joy, sad.

If you always want only joyfulness in your life, no way.

To able to walk on your own, u definately fall down while u r start try to walk...............

So, we walk, walk, walk,

Kepp WALKING.............

Jonny Walker Cheer

[Justiana Er]

I share d same thoughts of Alfaromeo!

[yus75]

aiya if she 3timed me....i 4 timed back her

[Justiana Er]

Yus75.

oh my god

[yus75]

y..?? if she does tat to me.....y cant i do it back to her....??

sori wat i mean is my personal view....soully myself....n im not askin or telling others to follow my footsteps......

[Justiana Er]

Sori i mean ur ans is a gd one.

[yus75]

Sori i mean ur ans is a gd one.