Must a guy be more literate than a girl?

[dkk08]

Trust me I'm a real life example (I'm not boasting merely stating facts) I've 2 Ex GF and including my current one r all from All Girls school, first one from Cedar (2yrs), 2nd one from RGS(6mths) current one from STC(6yrs and still going stroong), whereas I was from a rowdy neighbourhood school and my current highest quali is only O Levels as I failed my A levels and din wanna waste time hence went to NS and after came out to work till now I'm already 27yrs old...

And my current GF of 6yrs+ have been with me all these while, seen thru really thick and thin days and yes she's a graduate with honours... So I guess the bottom line here is fate and faith, I'm a strong believer in fate and I'm a even bigger fan of faith & Love, strong faith & love can see u thru any situations, it can definitely tame any wild child or "Extreme Feminist" as I would put it...

[daimy068]

Love knows no boundaries my friend. We guys have to get out of that macho crap bubble we live in and deal with it! Gosh! This is the 21st century already...no hunters and gatherers around in Singapore!

[Marineman]

Does it really matters?

If you are OK with it and she is OK with it, it doesn't matter, most important it's compatability.

I have a friend who finished up to 6th Form and is a successful businessman, he married a girl who holds a senior position in a big comapny and is a 1st Class degree holder, now she is a housewife looking after the kids. So if you don't mind and she doesn't mind then it doesn't matter who minds.

If you have this inferiority complex, then don't bother to even date a girl who is more successful than yourself otherwise this will haunt you forever evethough she doesn't mind. Just imagine she has to entertain her clients, you will be damn jealous and feel so insecure and starts to questions her what she did, who she went out with etc etc, this will piss her off, then the relationship will collapse. Inferiority complex will make you feel more insecure in such a relationship.

Don't forget, nobody can force you to do what you don't want to do and do not let external factors control your feelings. Sometimes we worry too much about what others think unnecessary.

In fact money talks in most relationships, lieterate or not is not important, money is. How many times we have seen rich Ah Bengs married beautiful girls, big house, big cars, plenty of money to throw etc. Young girls go for fun and love and not money, girls over 30 is more appreciative if you got money, looks is secondary. This is reality.

[RAV-65]

A guy giving a girl what she wants is bullsh*t. A girl who really loves you will be independent and buy things using her own $. The thought of a girl relying on a guy all the time sickens me. What are we guys supposed to be? Saviour of women? Jeez. Spoil women too much and they'll take you for granted.

Dun spoil her, u're still taken for granted...

[SpiderOne]

i guess this is why i always go for ah lians . coz im a stupid ah beng :)

[AquaRa]

i guess this is why i always go for ah lians . coz im a stupid ah beng :)

haha. nice car

[aStRoBo|]

it's the theory of evolution. the smartest survive. an intellect cannot hold a mind-stimulating conversation with a dense person. and without conversation, the relationship becomes dull.

well, agree with u on this. facing this prob now.

[hotlemond]

Guys, lets put it this way. Literacy is one of the many other factors. please refer to www.askmen.com for your answers.

that's a familiar website

use to read articles there, and then they got this player's guide which have to pay money. But I find the articles of "10 types of women you should keep" and "10 types of women you should avoid" very useful. Bros got time can check them out. Somehow you will find your current/ex will belong to one of the categories.

Litaracy? Education? well, its one of the gateway to better income but it shouldn't determined the outcome of a relationship. Let say you are a 23 yrs old girl with a degree and in the workforce and you have a boyfriend with equal status too but is petty, self centered and run behind you to hide when trouble approach, will it be fun to be with him?? But hey! he is also a degree holder rite?

Giving in to her? oh sure, once in a while and with valid reasons. Who doesn't like to be pamper for a while??

But one thing i felt it brings to my attention is that you should always be a challenge to her if you wan to keep her constantly attracted to you. How?? God..., I am not a love doctor but, for a start, dun keep saying sorry for no reason, dun give up your personal time/hobby just because she thinks wat you are doing are boring to her, made her pay for outings too, dun allow her if she use ###### as a weapon to control you (no offence to ladies). And lastly, dun be a doormat for her to step all over you and end up being a wussy. When you dun like it, tell her so..., NICELY of course.

Just my 2 cents worth