hmmm... buy her a tank to keep lil fishies... maybe she'll be the one who will go:" darling... today we dun go taka shopping okie?? we go PR farm... i wanna buy starfish..."
bro... for the overflow u maybe interested in this..
http://www.tnreefer.com/overflow.shtml
have the stars open?? if not u can place them close to the light and also at a moderate flow area... when i first got my star i place it on the SB and they did not even open... but when i shift it higher... its like star light star bright!!
Bro hondaker i think there's a kind of phytoplankton known as marine snow... heard for some other reefers here is quite good... any bros here agree or disagree??
bro... i serious suggest you to get a cabinate...
not only it looks nicer... you can also house ur sump in it as well...
just my 5 cents worth of advice...