u guys one is ok lah.. my uncle lend money from my dad always.. and when they need money.. my dad still have to send the money to their door step. they are not pai seh.. first time 200.. second time 500.. and more and more.. first time reason is no money to pay house rent.. 2nd reason is pay PUB.. and so on and on lah.. quite piss off with them.. when they noe tt my dad have some cash in hand.. they will try their luck to ask for more.. as my dad is having crisis they juz carry on.. as they are my dad bro or cousin.. and my dad is way too kind to help them.. haiz.. for wad i have seen.. try not to be a good person too much.. cause in the end.. u will be the losing one.. try not to help.. not don help.. ya..