i am not even offended dun worry bro
i have been in this hobby long enough and know what will happen when i buy this fish.
to me it is a hobby, and when i decided to keep it, i try my best lor to provide for it, if it is beyond my mean, then no choice.
for me i have countless of fishes that die in my hand, but that does not stop me from ending the hobby. =) but rather learn lessons out from it =)