While I don't think what USA has done is right, I don't think what you said is correct either.
I don't see any Jewish survivors of the Holocaust exploding themselves in some German restaurant or crowded buses. I don't see these oppressed Jews burning churches or destroying Buddhist statues. Instead I see them forcing the world to respect them. They gave Singapore our efficient armed forces. They gave humanity the sciences of the 19th and 20th century. They certainly did not cry or whine and blamed others for their plight.
If only these extremists spend more time and resources on their own country, caring for their own people instead of buying more bombs, hiring more self detonating terrorists and teaching their younger generation to hate, I think they would have prospered.