hi bro Arie,
I empathize with you. I too, am a young boy like you. 18 years of age. I completely understand how you feel. However, you will realize that this forum is very adult dominated and you will get crushed very easily here if you don't learn how to adapt, and adapt fast.
I was like you before 2 years ago. I was very much disliked as well. Go do a search on my name, read up on my old posts. I have nothing to hide. Truth is, the teenage mentality does not suit well here. After awhile, naturally you will learn to adapt and behave, act more maturely.
That is why i love spending my time in this forum. In the day i am a normal teenage boy with teenage friends acting like a normal teenage boy, but here, i learn to control, type properly, watch my language and act with some ethics.
I'm not saying asking for free things is wrong. Firstly, this is the wrong thread to do so. 2ndly, this hobby is very expensive and you must be willing to spend. There are many experienced reefers here and making multiple threads asking for free things is unsightly and classless.
However, as you can see, many people replied you and are helping you, with free stuff to give. however, no matter how wronged you are, always remember to keep your cool and learn to control the words you use. otherwise you will only be more hated.
Secondly, i never accuse you of double nicking. I am a moderator and i cannot anyhow accuse anyone of any crime unless i have solid evidence. Re-read all my posts. i did not confirm you are a multi-nicker. However, people complain, and it is my job to go and do a search.
Can you blame me for doing my job? No, you cannot. Can you blame the reefers here for suspecting? No you cannot too!
Recently there have been alot of new reefers popping up asking for free things. It's too much of a coincidence and naturally, people will suspect. So they will report.
If you have nothing to hide, then don't act up and scold vulgarities. Like I said, you have to act abit more mature here.
I believe you are new.
Let me tell you something about me. I don't like it when new reefers do no research and go into things impulsively. The internet is a soup of knowledge and if you don't do any re-search, then it's your fault. I believe you just started correct? Already you have many clownfish, starfish, damselfish etc. Do a research on these fishes and see how they will play out in your tank. I can tell you, not good.
So i hope you read my long and boring post and then absorb it in.
I understand that it's your personality. But you must change it someway or another. How you act in real life, i don't care. But when you're in this forum, i hope you at least abide by some rules and standards.
Thank you!
Lemon.