Hi bro,
Do not compare 3M tape with Bond-Ply tape as It's designed for LED's heat dispensing purposes.
Bond-Ply is thermally conductive, electrically isolating, pressure sensitive adhesive pad/tape. It meant for the round metal core pcb used for assembled LEDs. This pad makes it easy to fasten the round base directly to a heat sink without the need for screws or messy compounds and adhesives. The bonding become stronger when heat increased so you would not afraid of the LED to drop off.
Fore more info on.Bond_Ply 100
You are overdriving the LED strip that why the LED burnt off. FYI, LED is current driven not voltage driven so increase current over manufacturer's LED spec will definitely burnt off the LED or shorten the LED life span. Pls take note and read more.