Congratulations on you going to be a father soon, Bro DP, i guess we reefers goes thru some sort of this type of cycle, this is what i had went thru.....
Start reef hobby, small tank - 2ft.....
not enought space for so many LS - so upgrade ...eventually 5ft.....
First child coming.......gave up.......
child growing up, slightly more time.....went back to 2ft......2nd child came...2ft is manageable so hobby still ok....now.......3ft...............
.......future.......BIG DREAM TANK is still in my mind CONSTANTLY.....
This are part of the stages of life.......you will enjoy parenthood especially when your child kisses you goodnight everynight..... ....i get 2 kisses from my 2 little girls now everynight, left and right...