Actually, your ###### avatar may serve to fuel the over production of male hormones.... so it's not helping us males much!
Seriously though, this kopitiam has been a nice place for male bonding... and you know lah... when guys get together... but you gals... when you get together also.... WORSE than the men... you go into gory descriptions of EVERYTHING!!!!
If you ask me... all my years of male bonding... we spare details of 'intimate things' from each other... but it seems like when women get together... even those they are not that familiar with.... they will disclose all sorts of funny things... its quite embarrassing also for their male partners when we all meet up because I get told... this so and so's boyfriend hoh.. he.. hor.. like dat like dat one... then hah... like this, like this one.... and I will look at the guy with different eyes... and god knows, if his girlfriend also told him... and he's looking at me with some knowing eyes about my secrets... sigh!!!